With more online dating sites and services now dedicated to sugar daddy dating, finding a successful, rich older man that can take care of you is easier than ever. But that’s just the first step. Once you’ve found an older man, or a few older men that you feel are a good match for you, then you need to make sure that you know how to be a good sugar baby. Here are ten simple tips for dating a sugar daddy.
1. Keep Things Fun and Positive
As a sugar baby, it is your job to keep your sugar daddy happy. So make sure that when you are spending time with him, you keep your mood happy, fun and positive. Your company should be enjoyable.
2. Lay out the Rules of the Arrangement Early On
While you shouldn’t talk about payments, expenses or gifts when you first meet or on the first date, you do need to outline the specifics of your arrangement fairly early on in the relationship. Some women ask for monthly expenses, whereas others want a certain amount of gifts or vacations. So, decide what you want from the arrangement early on and tell your sugar daddy. By knowing the details of the arrangement from the beginning, both you and your sugar daddy will know exactly what to expect from the arrangement.
3. Make yourself Available
If your sugar daddy calls and asks to see you, make sure you are available. If you keep hanging out with friends and denying your sugar daddy dates, he won’t feel wanted. It could jeopardize the relationship you have with him. Make your sugar daddy feel important, like he is your top priority.
4. Keep Other Relationships Private
If you are dating more than one sugar daddy, or if you are dating other people in general, don’t let your sugar daddy know about it. You want him to feel like he’s your number one priority and that you are there for him. So, keep any other relationships you may have private. If you are busy with another date, tell him you are seeing friends or family instead. But be careful when dating more than one sugar daddy, as mentioned above, you need to make sure that you are available.
5. Be Confident
Confidence is a very attractive quality. Being a confident person will put your sugar daddy at ease and make the whole arrangement more enjoyable. Sometimes, especially if they are new to this type of arrangement, a sugar daddy might feel a little nervous. By acting confident and sure of yourself, you will make him more relaxed about the situation.
6. Don’t Take the Relationship Too Seriously
Always remember not to take sugar daddy relationships seriously. It is your role to keep him company in return for money, gifts and travel experiences and that’s all. You should not expect any kind of commitment, let alone a serious relationship or marriage from your sugar daddy. Keep the relationship light and fun. That is what sugar daddies want.
7. Make an Effort with your Appearance
In all relationships, making an effort with your appearance is important. So make sure that you dress well and take care of yourself. Sophisticated clothing is often favored by sugar daddies.
8. Boost His Self-Esteem
Make sure to boost your sugar daddy’s self-esteem. Compliment him often and make him feel important. Always listen to what he has to say and take an interest in his interests. This will give him a self-esteem boost and make him feel great.
9. Listen to Him
Make sure that you listen to your sugar daddy and let him be himself. At work or with his friends, he might not get to talk about his feelings. So, if he wants to confide in you, then let him.
10. Let Him Call You
While it’s important to let your sugar daddy know that you want to spend time with him, and that you are available, you don’t want to be too pushy. Don’t call his phone. Let him call you to arrange meetups. Sugar daddies are often busy with their careers, friends and family, so don’t hassle him. When he is ready to spend time with you, he will let you know.